Despite the strip tease, romantic one-on-one dates, and hopeful ending, The Golden Bachelorette Episode 4 was full of drama, heartbreak, and emotional goodbyes.

During her hardest rose ceremony yet, Joan Vassos eliminated not one, not two, but FOUR Golden Guys, including the debut season’s most controversial contestant, along with two fan-favorite national treasures who will be terribly missed by members of Bachelor Nation.

If you’re looking for a detailed Golden Bachelorette Episode 4 recap, Decider’s got you covered. In there, you’ll also learn that frontrunner Chock Chapple headed home in Episode 4 following the devastating news that his mother died. He shared a tearful goodbye with Joan, but because he surprised her by returning ahead of the rose ceremony, we left him off the list of people who headed home for good.

Joan started Episode 4 with 11 spunky suitors and ended it with just seven Golden Guys. So who went home? And who will be back next week for another shot at finding lasting late-in-life love? We’ve got answers. Without further ado, here’s everything to know about the four men who went home on The Golden Bachelorette Episode 4.

Need a refresher on which seven Golden Guys will be returning next week on The Golden Bachelorette Episode 5? Here’s the list of Joan’s remaining men:

New episodes of The Golden Bachelorette premiere Wednesdays at 8:00 p.m. ET on ABC with next-day streaming on Hulu.