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NextImg:Rex Heuermann had a weird relationship with his mother and likely targeted women who looked like her: pal

Alleged Gilgo beach serial killer Rex Heuermann, 61, had a strange relationship with his parents, his longtime friend told The Post.

The architect, now charged with murdering seven sex workers between 1993 and 2010, lived in the same house where he was born in Massapequa, Long Island, and kept it exactly as it had been when he was a child.

“I keep thinking, where is the root?  It’s something when he was young, maybe he could have been rejected by the girls in high school. But that happens to most guys anyway,” speculated David Jimenez, who appears in new Peacock documentary “The Gilgo Beach Killer: House of Secrets.”

Alleged Gilgo serial killer Rex Heuermann was a “momma’s boy” according to those who knew him, and had a strange relationship with his parent. James Carbone/Newsday/Pool
“The Gilgo Beach Killer: House of Secrets” is available to stream now on Peacock. Peacock
Heuermann and wife Asa Ellerup lived in the house he had grown up in after they married in 1995. Peacock

“I wonder, if you look at a picture of his mother, did she look like these ladies? These victims were all, y’know, petite.

“Does he have a hatred, indirectly, for his own mother or his father he’s projecting here?” Jimenez continued.

Heuermann’s mother, Dolores, is now 95 and believed to still be alive, but no pictures of her have ever surfaced. His father, Theodore Heuermann, died in 1975 aged 50. Classmates have previously said Heuermann was bizarrely close to his “controlling” mother and was a “momma’s boy.”

Heuermann’s house was left largely untouched or improved since when he was a child, despite him working as an architect. Peacock
Ellerup, who has since divorced Heuermann, attending one of his court hearings in 2023. Dennis A. Clark
Heuermann’s pal David Jimenez says he believes something in his childhood made him the way he is. Courtesy of David Jimenez
The Post has doggedly persued the story of the Gilgo Beach serial murderer since the first victims were uncovered in 2010. Peacock
Heuermann is a gun enthusiast, and almost 300 guns were recovered from his house after his arrest in 2023. Peacock

Heuermann lived in the house with his wife, Asa Ellerup – who divorced him after almost 30 years shortly after he was arrested for the alleged murders in 2023 – and their two children from 1994 onward.

Neither Heuermann’s family or his friend had any idea he could be involved in the murders, which he has pleaded not guilty to, before his arrest.

“He ruled that house like the old 1950s style family. Traditional, he was very secure, very much a man, but in a very secure, masculine way, not in an obnoxious way.

Heuermann’s seven alleged victims: (Top row L-R) Maureen Brainard-Barnes, Megan Waterman, Melissa Barthelemy, and Amber Lynn Costello. (Bottom row L-R) Sandra Costilla, Jessica Taylor, Valerie Mack. Suffolk County Police Department

“He looked after his wife and kids. He would protect [Asa]. He would look out for her when she was suffering from many of the physical ailments she has, especially later in life,” said Jimenez.

“I think that he has split personality, because the only side I ever saw of was as assured, smart, together, you know. When I heard all the details, DNA and everything that came out, I was shocked,” he added.

Heuermann’s trial has yet to begin. “The Gilgo Beach Killer: House of Secrets” is available to watch now on Peacock.