In the immortal, inspired words of that pickled Leo luminary and former postal employee Charles Bukowski, “Sex is kicking death in the a— while singing.”
In that spirit of that particular song and under the stay indoors imperative of the winter season, we’re talking about the sex to have, porn to watch and approach to take… all in support of your sacred pursuit of pleasure.
Aiding us in this carnal exploration is power Pisces Erika Lust, an award-winning adult filmmaker whose work challenges mainstream pornography through an emphasis on radical inclusivity and the female gaze.
Blessedly and refreshingly, Erika Lust’s films maintain a sex-positive, ethical production process that champions equal pleasure, diversity, transparency, fair pay, safe sex and humane conditions.
Ethical smut? Principled porn? Pleasure for all parties? Be still my Taurus heart (and Aquarius midheaven). Oh — the music is good too.
Read on, turn on, and keep on singing.
Ruled by Mars, planet of getting it on and getting it done, enthusiasm is never your challenge Aries, but imagination and follow through might be. Proactive and provocative are your marching orders; go further, bolder, and wilder in the weeks ahead.
As Lust explains, “Embrace this moment to push yourself out of your comfort zone and explore new opportunities. Enjoy sex that is spontaneous, passionate, and exciting. You love to tease and to be teased, so of course, you expect something thrilling. Try something new: if you have a partner, don’t be shy. Confess your fantasies to them: they will respond in kind.”
“If you are single, maybe it’s the perfect time to try something new: a shibari session? A threesome with a couple? Be open to exploring new boundaries and being more vocal in what you like and dislike.”
Porn genre to peruse: Threesome, Masturbation, Couple, Relationship. Lust explains, “These porn genres open up new turn-ons that a lot of people don’t realize they have! It can be a turning point in relationships to invite a third in, or for singles to find a couple they click with.”
Compatibility: Leo, Aquarius, Libra
Movie recommendation: “Three”
As fixed earth, you are carnality incarnate Taurus, a sensual bull god on a bed of fine linen. Your challenge lies in being open to the new and the novel, not only the tried and true.
You’ve got the drive to get it on but are you open to the challenge and change that lives beyond the boundaries of your well routine? Spend time exploring what pleasure means to you, love the s–t out of yourself, spend time au naturel in nature, and test out new turn ons. Don’t be afraid to show off or step out.
Lust imparts, “You have a powerful magnetic presence. A willingness to take on new tasks in your work life will translate in your sex life too. Remain patient and the Universe will reward you greatly.”
Porn genre to peruse: BDSM, Orgasm, Outdoors, Oral Sex. Lust explains, “Homebodies like Tauruses often stick to routine, we urge them to try new things. BDSM may sound like a niche genre, but it is beautiful and we always recommend this genre to those looking to push their own boundaries.”
Compatibility: Cancer, Virgo, Pisces
Movie recommendation: “Tie Me Up”
Ruled by the planet of the mind, Gemini lives to learn. The danger of your brilliant brain is that sometimes it prevents you from being fully present in the pleasures of the body. Lust recommends you marry the mental and the physical by watching ethically-made porn alone or with a partner, “This will help you understand each other’s kinks and desires, and your own.”
The danger of your brilliant brain is that sometimes it prevents you from being fully present in the pleasures of the body.
Porn genre to peruse: Bisexual, Oral Sex, Threesome. Lust explains, “These are some categories that are slightly out of that vanilla space and help to explore new kinks. Bisexual is a great category and actually popular among heterosexual people!”
Compatibility: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo
Movie recommendation: “Hannah”
Cancer is the sign of nostalgia, the sort that mourns a moment before it becomes a memory. In kind, going slow and truly savoring are wonderful ways to enhance pleasure and presence. Porn that focuses on amplified sensation and aims at the transcendental will inspire desire. As Lust recommends, “Take your time and be thoughtful, because after all, sex is a marathon, not a sprint.”
In the spirit of not sprinting, an online tantric sex workshop might be the ticket for you, or a great gift for or from your partner. In Sanskrit, the word tantra means woven together, exactly the kind of sexual stitching and serious intimacy Cancer is looking for.
Porn genre to peruse: Couples, Outdoor, Elegant, Soft. Lust expounds, “For a Cancer’s soul, I strongly recommend elegant, beautiful films with a splash of nature. Watch some outdoor films, and maybe try and initiate sex outdoors once in a while!
Compatibility: Scorpio, Leo, Taurus
Movie recommendation: “Elemental”
As per usual Leo, you fare best when you embrace/celebrate/copulate in your role as protagonist in the grand romance that is your waking life. Remember that be it a fling or forever, it is all a love story in the end. Take time to yourself while remaining open to strangers, scenarios and costars you may have previously looked over. Make a video of you for you, or take a pole dancing class as an exercise in being your own fantasy.
Make a video of you for you, or take a pole dancing class as an exercise in being your own fantasy.
Porn genre to peruse: Fetishes, Oral Sex, Comedy, Sex, Love and Rebellion. Lust recommends, “Comedy might just be the missing piece you need right now. It will take the edge off and help you relax. The Fog is one of my favorite films to watch if I’m in a spooky sexy mood.”
Compatibility: Libra, Gemini, Aries
Movie recommendation: “The Fog”
There is no sign more discerning than you, dear Virgo. Honor your studious instincts and your exquisite taste by viewing a smorgasbord of porn (smorgasporn?) to see what suits and erotically inspires you. Think of it as research; take notes and keep in mind what you’d like to enact.
As a cerebral sign, debate is foreplay and Lust recommends hosting a game night or attending bar trivia to meet your next match while getting your mind and body equally aroused.
Porn genre to peruse: Passionate, Erotic Episodes. Lust recommends, “Try a range of different series, make note of what you like and what you don’t and explore more of that.”
Compatibility: Gemini, Libra, Sagittarius
Movie recommendation: “A Taste of Kunst”
As the sign of partnership, you often prioritize the pleasure of others, before — or in lieu of — your own, Libra. As “Bailo Conmigo” asks us, “Why do we save our sexiest outfits and our smoothest moves for other people to see?” Challenge your tendencies by seducing yourself.
Meditation is your friend and masturbation your teacher. Remember Libra, perfection is the enemy of pleasure. Praise your body not only for the way that it looks, but the powerful ways it can make you feel.
Porn genre to peruse: Music, Masturbation, Comedy, Homemade. You can ease your expectations of perfection and remind yourself that sex should first and foremost be FUN by indulging in homemade or comedic porn.
Compatibility: Cancer, Pisces, Virgo
Movie recommendation: “Bailo Conmigo”
As a threshold sign Scorpio, you prefer your intimacy with the kind of intensity that frightens most folks. Why stop at the edge when you can push yourself over it, eh? Sex with a shot of pain — or sex in the rain — is the road to joy in the coming weeks for you fixed water freaks.
As Lust explains, “We love Scorpios. We even made a film about you. You are known for your passionate, fast-paced, and high-intensity approach to life. When adventure calls you listen.” And whomever is along for the ride is certainly in for one.
Porn genre to peruse: GroupSex, Orgies, Public Sex. Lust expounds, “Scorpio Season is as hot as it gets. Sex in the rain, wet hair, cars. It is enough to leave any star sign feeling things!”
Compatibility: Aries, Pisces, Leo
Movie recommendation: “Scorpio Season”
You’re the sign of optimistic exploration Sagittarius, and the frontiers of the flesh may be your grandest adventure yet. Try something or someone you’ve never done before; temperature play, role play or an anonymous hookup.
Alternatively, the world of BDSM awaits and while you don’t like limits you might be surprised at how hot boundaries can be. Prioritize staying present and surrendering expectations of yourself or others. Let freedom reign and pleasure rule.
The world of BDSM awaits and while you don’t like limits you might be surprised at how hot boundaries can be
Porn genre to peruse: BDSM, Orgasm, Fetishes, Oral Sex. Lust advises, “Try stepping out of your comfort zone! Movies in our BDSM category span from light to mega kink.”
Compatibility: Leo, Pisces, Gemini
Movie recommendation: “Safe Word“
As an earth sign, Capricorn, you self-regulate with earthly delights; good food, quality rest, and vigorous sex. You can be a little utilitarian when it comes to getting it on or opening up. Combat these tendencies by telling your partner how you feel or, at the very least, how you want to make them feel physically.
Born to strive, your assignment is to work towards building anticipation and heightening release, give yourself and your partner an education in edging.
Porn genre to peruse: Romance, Couples, Passionate, Real Sex. Lust explains, “Try some porn that feels achievable. Real sex, real people, passionate love. It may encourage you to try something new, such as having sex in a hammock!”
Prone to feeling like the weight of the world is on your shoulders, sex while suspended is your ticket to ride.
Movie recommendation: “Hamaca Sutra”
Compatibility: Cancer, Virgo, Libra
As the resident outsider of the zodiac, you struggle with wanting or allowing yourself to be truly known, Aquarius. It may be best for you to lay the foundation for getting laid with a low pressure, friendship building activity that takes you out of your mind and into the moment. Take your time, broaden your mind, trust in the inherent hotness that breathes below your cool exterior.
It may be best for you to lay the foundation for getting laid with a low pressure, friendship building activity that takes you out of your mind and into the moment.
Lust explains, “You’re capable of anything you set your mind to and is time to explore yourself physically and emotionally. Cuddling, teasing, and foreplay are just as important as sex, and you will love the intimacy. Try something new and not necessarily sexual with your partner or someone special. Maybe a cooking class, a hike or picnic? Who knows, it could lead to outdoor sex. Whatever you decide to do, make the move.”
Porn genre to peruse:: Groupsex , Oral Sex , LGBTQI+. Lust explains, “This season is all about trying new things and playing outside of the box.”…and/or with a gaggle of others.
Compatibility: Virgo, Pisces, Scorpio.
Movie recommendation: “Female Pleasure Circle”
Pisces is the sign of afternoon delights, ennui, serendipitous encounters, crochet blankets and romantic longing. Ruled by ephemeral Neptune and soothed by poetry, Pisces folk are primed to enjoy and prone to enact the sticky pages of erotic literature. For the visual learners amongst you, porn that feels dreamy speaks to your spirit while inciting your instincts especially this one, billed as an erotic version of Amélie
Porn genre to peruse: Food Lovers, Oral Sex, Vintage. Lust explains, “No idea how to create the perfect vibes for an indoor picnic? Watch La Journée des Framboises to inspire you. Activities like this are the perfect opportunity to connect on a deeper level and make some unique and uniquely hot memories.”
Compatibility: Taurus, Capricorn, Cancer
Movie recommendation: “La Journée des Framboises”
Astrologer Reda Wigle researches and irreverently reports back on planetary configurations and their effect on each zodiac sign. Her horoscopes integrate history, poetry, pop culture and personal experience. She is also an accomplished writer who has profiled a variety of artists and performers, as well as extensively chronicled her experiences while traveling. Among the many intriguing topics she has tackled are cemetery etiquette, her love for dive bars, Cuban Airbnbs, a “girls guide” to strip clubs and the “weirdest” foods available abroad.