It’s the reason she became a mom in the first place, after all.
Single mother Emily Deeley says she’s been slut-shamed by online trolls after declaring that sex is the “most important” thing in her life — but she’s refusing to back down from her belief.
Deeley, who works as a relationship coach in the United Kingdom, frequently shares sex tips online, with haters hitting out against the amorous blond.
“I have had people call me a slut, a whore and even go as far as saying I am an awful mother and social services should be called on my kids,” the 27-year-old mom of two told Jam Press on Tuesday.
However, Deeley claims her critics are “close-minded” and “stuck in their ways,” saying “sex is the most natural thing a human can do.”
“Sex isn’t dirty and can be fun with whoever you like,” she declared.
Deeley shares her hot tips on TikTok, where she’s amassed more than 77,800 followers.
In a recent clip, the coach claimed women shouldn’t be worried if a man has slept with 1,000 women, describing it as “normal.”
She said women should worry if a man’s body count is fewer than 20, saying she would question what is “wrong” with him.
The mom made the declaration with a young child sitting next to her. In the comments section, she also disclosed her own body count, claiming it was around “60 or 70.”
Meanwhile, the TikTok star has caused controversy by saying men should always date younger women and that cheating with an escort is acceptable.
Speaking with Jam Press, Deeley doubled down on the fact that men should date younger women, saying they should seek out females who are half their age, plus seven years.
“Women need an older man to protect them, value them and stimulate them in both a sexual and intellectual way,” she stated. “Older men have more wisdom and power, while younger women offer beauty, fertility and youthfulness.
“It’s the ultimate match for pure satisfaction,” the dating coach added.
Meanwhile, Deeley also elaborated on her belief that sleeping with an escort does not constitute cheating.
“When a man or woman pays for sex, there is no emotional connection involved,” she explained. “There is no messaging, sneaky emails or phone calls.
“It’s simply a person paying for a service to ensure their needs are met — it’s essential.”
The dating coach claimed couples should be honest with one another about their needs and advises that they constantly communicate about their desires.
“People change and we’re not the same person at 25 as we are at 55,” she explained, saying some people might turn to paid sex to have their needs met. “Honesty is the key to a long-lasting relationship.”
Additionally, the sexed-up singleton has told her followers that she believes women actually prefer men with smaller penises.
“Men like to think size matters, but in reality, women like an average or smaller penis,” Deeley told Jam Press. “A large penis hurts and feels uncomfortable, it’s also harder in regards to anal sex as it’s so painful.
“Good sex is all about the dominance of a man, the communication and the chemistry between two people — definitely not the appearance [of a penis],” she continued.
“Also, women don’t need to orgasm for sex to be good. Some of the most amazing sexual encounters I’ve had are times where I didn’t orgasm. I can do that alone in my house with a toy, but men offer a ‘feeling’ which a toy simply cannot give a woman.”
Deeley then cheekily declared: “Orgasms last a few seconds, while the act of sex leaves a lifetime of memories.”
Deeley is a mom to a 5-year-old and an 11-month-old and has no qualms about taking her kids on dates with her.
“Many men don’t want to get involved in a relationship with a single mum, as it comes with ‘baggage’ and responsibility,” she explained. “If I went on a date without them, it would be romantic and delightful for sure — but it’s fake reality.
“My world is focused on them and as I get older, I will get a nanny or babysitter, but I don’t want to be on a date worrying about them,” the coach added. “If they are with me, I feel safe and secure.”
She advises other single mamas to also take their kids on dates, saying the man’s reaction might prove to be a good indicator of things to come.
“How gentle and loving he is with a child may show how much of an in-tune lover he is in the bedroom,” she said.
Despite being a relationship coach, Deeley has failed to find her own Mr. Right, saying dating has been “hard” for her.
“I do think that dating in England is very difficult, as I’m a tall woman with high standards and I want a man who is attractive, educated and intelligent, which is hard to come by,” she stated.
But the beauty refuses to lower her standards or downplay the importance of good sex.
“I think people need to understand that sex sells and no one should ever be shamed upon anyone for what they do or what they like in the bedroom,” Deeley declared.