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NY Post
New York Post
2 Mar 2023


NextImg:I manifest orgasms during sex with my husband — it actually works

Come again?

A Tennessee woman says her sex life has been sizzling since she started “manifesting” her orgasms.

Cassie Brooks, 39, turned to the practice two years ago when she and her husband, Monte, 47, were simply “going through the motions” in the bedroom.

Eager to spice up their sex life, Brooks came across “sex magic” — sometimes spelled “sex magick” — a type of manifestation that utilizes “energy within” in order to produce a desired result.

“We have to be intentional when we truly want to connect with each other, and sometimes it’s easy to push sex aside because we’re tired,” The Tennessee-based accounting clerk told NeedToKnow.online, noting that she and her husband work opposite schedules.

“I love my husband, but sometimes he has the emotional range or spiritual depth of a door knob,” the former coven member shared. “For me, sex magick has deepened our connection.”

Eager to spice up her sex life, Brooks came across “sex magic” — sometimes spelled “sex magick” — a type of manifestation that utilizes “energy within” in order to produce a desired result.
Jam Press/Cassandra Brooks

Ritual set up with candles

As part of the “sex magick” process, the pair light candles to get in the mood. The ritual has worked wonders for the couple, reviving their sex life.
Jam Press/Cassandra Brooks

While sex magick is often used for self-pleasure, it’s traditionally much more involved than simple “manifesting.” In 2020, Vice writer Helen Meriel Thomas detailed her dabbles into the kinky craft, claiming it was a multi-step ritual that involved setting intentions, breathing exercises and, to no surprise, masturbating.

For some, the intention might be as simple as a climax, but for others, they can “channel all of the electric energy of your orgasm into” the visualization of any goal, according to author Kristen Sollee.

Some sex magick proponents also charge their sex toys in the moonlight or carve sigils on candles to burn.

“I love my husband, but sometimes he has the emotional range or spiritual depth of a door knob," the former coven member shared. “For me, sex magick has deepened our connection.”
“I love my husband, but sometimes he has the emotional range or spiritual depth of a door knob,” the former coven member shared. “For me, sex magick has deepened our connection.”
Jam Press/Cassandra Brooks

Manifesting in general is also not a new concept, having been endorsed by a slew of celebrities including Megan Fox, who has previously claimed she manifested her fiancee Machine Gun Kelly when she was just a child.

But while many have expressed skepticism about the practice, Brooks says manifesting through sex magick actually works.

“Sex magick can be whatever you want it to be, much like the act itself can,” she explained. “You can do it by yourself or with your partner and still get the manifestations you desire.”

“That part is always about intention. The rest is up to you.”

Brooks admits that her husband Monte is more of a passive participator in the manifesting process, but she’s happy to help him achieve his own form of bliss.

“If he’s struggling with something, I make sure to use the right scent, put on the heels or lingerie piece that will quickly be discarded to help set the tone,” she said, noting that despite his energy not being “intentional,” “it still counts.”

The pair now schedule regular sex sessions where they will bask in each other’s presence, and touch each other in ways that foster energy that they release “into the universe.”

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Candlelit table with note cards that have writing on them
Brooks swears by sex magic for improved intimacy with her husband.
Jam Press/Cassandra Brooks
Candles lit for ritual
The lengthy ritual involves intention-setting and manifesting a desired goal or outcome that will result from the release energy after sex.
Jam Press/Cassandra Brooks
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Note cards on a book with writing on them
Brooks says she used to be “part of a coven” and was inspired to use sex magic after reading about its benefits.
Jam Press/Cassandra Brooks
Ritual items on a table, such as incense, candles
Brooks claims the sex ritual has enhanced her relationship with her husband.
Jam Press/Cassandra Brooks
Soup of cut up fruit with the word "love" written on a leaf
Two years ago, the couple was struggling to connect and sex magic has revived the relationship.
Jam Press/Cassandra Brooks
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“There are some immediate effects because you are charged and aware of what you just did, but as the afterglow of an orgasm surfaces, so does the energy created and released into the universe,” Brooks enthused.

“Sometimes it takes time for magick to work, but that’s part of the whole thing – trusting the process.”