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8 Jun 2023


NextImg:Ariana Madix wanted more ‘intimacy’ with Tom Sandoval: ‘I am not your Fleshlight’

Ariana Madix wanted more “intimacy” in her relationship with Tom Sandoval, but she says he treated her like a sex toy.

Madix candidly revealed what was missing in the bedroom with Sandoval after the embattled cheater mocked her at the “Vanderpump Rules” reunion for wearing a T-shirt during intercourse.

“I feel like I’m someone who craves intimacy outside of just penetrative sex,” she told Glamour in an interview published Thursday.

“And that was something that I was deprived of for so long. As women, we might bring something up a bunch of times and then we just stop. That’s where I was at. I was like, ‘I cannot keep nagging this man to want to come home and spend time with me.'”

Madix, 37, also shared that Sandoval, 40, fell short when it came to addressing her emotional needs.

“The way that so many men act like they are entitled to your body and entitled to sex because you’re in a relationship with them,” she explained. “I am not your Fleshlight. I spelled out what I needed, but hello. It’s a two-person situation.”

Ariana Madix spoke candidly about needing more “intimacy” from ex Tom Sandoval following his public comments about their sex life.
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Ariana Madix on Glamour cover

Madix reflected on what was missing from the bedroom, telling Glamour, “I am not your Fleshlight.”
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Ariana Madix at "Vanderpump Rules" Season 10 reunion

Madix’s interview was published after Sandoval shaded her for “keeping her T-shirt on” in the bedroom.
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The Something About Her co-owner’s comments come after the cover band frontman came under fire Wednesday for sarcastically saying during the Bravo reality show’s reunion, “She kept her T-shirt on [during sex]. It was really hot.”

While his co-stars blasted the “disgusting” remark on air, Madix has since reclaimed the narrative by selling tees with the slogan “F–k Me in This Shirt” via her merch shop.

Madix called it quits on her nine-year romance with Sandoval in March after discovering a sexually explicit video of Leviss on his phone. The aftermath of the months-long affair has played out for the cameras on Season 10 of “Vanderpump Rules.”

Tom Sandoval and Ariana Madix

The exes ended their nine-year relationship in March after Sandoval’s affair with Raquel Leviss came to light.
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Ariana Madix in Glamour

Following the breakup, Madix started dating personal trainer Daniel Wai.
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Madix — who has since moved on with personal trainer Daniel Wai — admitted she has had a weight lifted off her shoulders following the breakup.

“I definitely feel this sense of freedom because I was the adviser, the sounding board,” she told Glamour.

“And he didn’t like that he wasn’t getting constant validation from his adviser. Now I feel like I don’t have to worry about anybody but myself.”