Q. I just started a new job, but it’s not at all what the job description said or what the interviews covered. I’m in over my head, no one is training me and I haven’t been paid in week four now. What should I do?
A. Yikes. First, talk to your boss about the status of payment. They should be in the loop before you most likely will contact payroll next. If you have already submitted a time sheet, I’m assuming you should call payroll to ensure they have you set up properly, etc. Also, find out going forward what the timing is — most companies pay every other week. Perhaps you’re working for a startup or something and the payment is monthly and no one told you. Definitely make this a priority.
Next, while you’re talking to your boss, discuss your concern about the job. Mainly, how it’s not what you previously discussed. Ask how you can tap into resources and get trained by colleagues. Be proactive to set yourself up to succeed.
Lastly, this pains me to say, but after these conversations, if things continue to seem off, you may need to start looking for a new job. Every new job seems to have some level of growing pains (that’s normal). But if it’s a completely different job and you’re not getting paid and not getting guidance to learn the ropes, that could get very stressful very fast. On the other hand, if your payment is squared away, and you can learn and hone new skills, and enjoy the work and your colleagues, things have the potential to improve. Remember, you are in the driver’s seat.
Q. My side hustle is my jam. I think I’m ready to leap and quit my 9-to-5. But I have student loans that seem impossible. What should I do?
A. Whenever someone wants to quit their day job and pursue a passion, it’s always exhilarating and inspiring. But it should not be done spontaneously. My main advice is always to crunch numbers and speak to your financial adviser and an accountant. Perhaps they’ll suggest continuing with your day job for a while longer while you ramp up your side hustle, without getting burned out while keeping cash flowing.
Q. I am being ghosted! TLDR: How many times do I follow up before it’s considered stalkerish; and I should move on? I interviewed three times for my dream job and each time went really well. The last time they said they would get back to me soon, they’re wrapping up and hope to have a decision soon. Blah blah. I sent thank you notes, everything. And followed up twice. At what point do I give up?
A. You already followed up twice and here’s the thing: If they want to hire you, you’ll hear from them. Maybe there’s a valid reason, like the job is on pause suddenly, but in that instance they should reach out to you and at least tell you so you’re not left in limbo.
When I worked in recruiting, occasionally candidates thanked me when I rejected them! They felt closure and relief rather than not knowing.
The good news is you seem to be acing your interviews and made it this far, so keep doing what you’re doing and have faith the best employer for you — one that will communicate continuously with you — is right around the corner. You got this!
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